How To Deal With Negative People | Speak Up For Yourself
INFECTION: AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY. You can die from someone else’s misery – emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man, but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy and fortunate instead. Law 10, the 48 Laws of Power. By Robert Green
How do you respond to a negative person? How does living with a negative person affect you?
Does other people’s negative energy bring you down? Maybe it’s your coworkers, family members, or even friends you’ve grown apart from.
When you’re surrounded by negativity, it’s easy to absorb that energy and start to feel negative yourself, and this can mess with your mindset and make you feel drained.
Hello and welcome to the Ancient wisdom modern mind podcast and today I would like to deal with Negative People. Have you said to yourself, “I am no longer willing to be a trash can for another’s negativity?”
“Most of us have one, so called friend or family member. Who is negative and self-absorbed, a so called friend who comes around and literally throws their trash all over you. And we learn early in the relationship that the only way to be safe from their anger is by listening to their complaints.
And while we quietly tolerate their negative whining slowly they begin to strip away our joy, bring us down to their level. And instead of focusing our energy towards being the best versions of ourselves we instead begin to absorb their negative energy while they feed off out positivity.
Negative people affect every part of our lives and even seem to suck our intelligence and ability to think, and it has even been shown that negativity can compromises the effectiveness of the neurons in the hippocampus, an important area of the brain responsible for reasoning and memory.
And that is why it’s so important to avoid the negative narcissistic personality, and surround ourselves with people who will uplift our spirits. The negativity person is like a vampire that feeds off your energy, and they come back every time they need a boost.
It takes courage to speak up for yourself. It takes courage to say to this so called friend who is dumping their negativity onto you. It’s time to take charge, to speak up for yourself, free yourself.
For you own future, don’t allow this predator to feed off your kindness and drain your very precious energy and happiness.
So that’s my thoughts on dealing with negative people, please listen the full video and if you have the time then let me know in the comments about your understanding of Negativity or how you have changed your life, 👍 share and Stay safe.
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